Showing posts with label LGBT. Show all posts
Showing posts with label LGBT. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Transgender woman wins breast augmentation contest

AMP Radio’s controversial “Breast Summer Ever” contest took an interesting turn today. The winner of the competition, who was voted for by the public, was Avery. She was born male but is transitioning to female. What may be most surprising is that Avery won by a landslide – 76% of the votes – in conservative ol’ Calgary.

Although I've never liked the contest, I think it’s interesting that Avery won. Her win has shown me two things:

First, the younger generation of Calgarians (those most likely to be AMP Radio listeners and voters) are an open minded bunch. This gives me hope that our awesome-but-conservative city can be a more welcoming place for those whose gender or sexuality is anything other than straight.

Second, I believe that voters saw through the ridiculousness of many aspects of this contest. Most of the other contestants didn’t have a compelling reason to deserve a $10,000 boob job. Many of them wanted new breasts for reasons the public just wouldn't sympathize with. Avery’s case was one of the few that caught my attention, and I was pleased to see that the public chose someone whose life could be meaningfully changed by breast augmentation.

No matter the outcome, I still find the contest a distasteful marketing ploy. The program manager basically admitted in a FFWD article that he was doing it for publicity, and now that a transgender person has won, the station will receive even more attention. Although a transgender person won the contest, that doesn’t change the fact that it was a stupid, sleazy contest that promoted body dissatisfaction and normalized plastic surgery. None the less, it was an interesting contest with the ending I secretly hoped for but never expected to happen.

Congratulations, Avery. I hope your new boobs help you complete your journey to womanhood.

UPDATE - I was asked by the Calgary Herald to comment on this story... here is the article!

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Urban Curvz theatre explores the drama of a lesbian wedding

It’s a girl’s dream: a wedding day with all her friends there to support her. But when her friends are rapidly falling in and out of love with one another, and her wife-to-be is too busy keeping the peace to pay her any attention, the bride is ready to explode. The play is described as "a mix of physical theatre and high-stakes pillow fight."



Urban Curvz is an award-winning theatre company based in Calgary. Their work "reflects the wit and intelligence of the women in this city" and celebrates the female experience as a source of autonomous art.



Love(her)/Fight(her) at Lunchbox Theatre

February 17–25, 2011

Evening shows are at 8 pm, except Fridays which are at 9 pm.

No shows Monday or Saturday

Additional Sunday matinee at 2 pm.

For ticket purchase and information call 403.265.4292 or visit UrbanCurvz.com



Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Make your own 'It Gets Better' anti-homophobia video!

Based on the efforts of Dan Savage’s “IT GETS BETTER” viral anti-bullying campaign, the Calgary Police Service, Fairy Tales and EMMEDIA have teamed up to launch a new program in which youth will be provided with the tools to create their own anti-homophobia public service announcements.



The program will begin with a series of workshops hosted by EMMEDIA Gallery & Production Society, where youth will be taught about the practicalities of filmmaking such as editing, video production and how to make an effective PSA. After acquiring the “how-to” knowledge they will then have access to the equipment at EMMEDIA to create their PSAs, which can be no longer than one minute.



Open to high school students and college/uni students up to age 24. All details and applications are on the Fairy Tales website.

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Some common sense thoughts on the Bible, same-sex marriage and abortion

I found this opinion article by Michael Coogan really interesting. He nicely summarizes what I've always felt about the Bible: Take from it the valuable lessons about treating others well and being a good citizen, and leave from it the sexist, racist, out-dated and old fashioned ideas (after all, it was written thousands of years ago! Times have changed!)

Unless you've been living in a cave for the last few years, you'll know that tension is rising in America between Christians and non-Christians, and some of the big issues that cause that tension are abortion and gay marriage. Below are a few paragraphs from Coogan's article that address these issues in the way I wish all Americans could address them: with common sense. It seems to me that common sense is not all that common anymore! Anyway, enough of my ramble, here's what Coogan has to say:

When talking about so-called family values, pastors, popes, and politicians routinely quote the Bible as if it were an unassailable divine authority -- after all, they assume, God wrote the Bible, and therefore it is absolutely and literally true.

But that is a misconception. As the Bible itself makes clear, its authors were human beings, many of whom are named: David, Isaiah, Luke, and Paul. These human writers wrote over the course of more than a thousand years, and their writings reflect their own views and the values they shared with their contemporaries. So it's not surprising that inconsistencies are frequent in the Bible, both trivial and profound.

Although Jews and Christians, individually and collectively, have for the last 2,000 years accepted the Bible as authoritative in principle, in practice many of its values have been rejected. On issues such as slavery, no one today would maintain that slavery is acceptable, even though, according to the Bible, it was a divinely sanctioned institution. In the debates about slavery in the 19th century those opposed to its abolition cited the Bible in support of their position, but despite such biblical warrant, their views were renounced.

According to biblical law, a father could sell his daughter as a slave, and the last of the Ten Commandments lists as off-limits a neighbor's possessions -- his house, wife, slaves, and livestock. But the majority of modern Jews and Christians no longer accept the biblical view of women as men's property and hence subordinate to them, as they have also abandoned the biblical practice of polygamy.

In current debates about family values, most of which have to do with sex, opponents of abortion and advocates of a woman's right to choose both cite the Bible in support of their conflicting views, even though the Bible in fact says nothing specifically about the issue. And with regard to same-sex marriage, although the few biblical writers who mention same-sex relationships, especially between men, were unequivocally opposed to them, many contemporary believers would argue that, as with slavery and the status of women, it is time to recognize that the values of the biblical writers are no longer necessarily our own.

Opponents of same-sex marriage cite Leviticus, which says that when a man sleeps with a man as with a woman it is an abomination. They're right: It does say that. But it later calls for the death penalty for such activity, which only the most rabid opponents would insist on. The Bible also calls eating pork and a woman wearing a man's clothes abominations, yet many would no longer enforce such prohibitions.

So, I suggest, the essence of the Bible -- its ultimate authority -- is not in its individual pronouncements, but in its underlying message: equal, even loving, treatment of all persons, regardless of their age, gender, socio-economic status, ethnicity, or sexual orientation.

To read the full article, click here.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Calgary Pride and Dyke March coming up!

We'll be having a gay ol' time in Calgary on the September long weekend!

Pride Parade
Sunday September 5, 12:00 noon
8th Ave & 8th St SW

Pride Dance
Saturday September 4, 8 pm - 2 am
Spur - 351 4th Ave SW

visit PrideCalgary.ca for details!


Calgary Dyke March

Saturday, September 4, 12:00 noon
Gather at the tower clock at Shaw Millenium Park - march along 8th Ave to Century Gardens at 8th St.

visit CalgaryDykeMarch.com for details!

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Calgary's First Dyke March

Calgary is hosting it's first annual Dyke March on Saturday, September 4, 2010.

The march beings at noon at Shaw Millenium Park: gather at the tower clock. Participants will will march on the sidewalk of 8th ave to Century Gardens at 8th Street.

Come out to help strengthen and support Calgary's dyke community!

Visit the Calgary Dyke March website or the Facebook page for all the details.

Thursday, July 15, 2010

Argentina legalizes same-sex marriage & adoption

From guardian.co.uk:

Argentina's senate passed a same-sex marriage bill today, clearing the way for the country to become the first in South America to allow gay couples to marry and adopt children.

Following more than 14 hours of charged debate,the upper house voted 33-27 for the proposal.
Argentina's female president, Cristina Fernández, supports same-sex marriage on human rights grounds and is expected to sign the bill into law after her return from a state visit to China.

Not everyone was in support though... tens of thousands of opponents, from children to elderly nuns, braved near-freezing temperatures to protest outside the congress since Tuesday, causing traffic jams in Buenos Aires.

However, opinion polls show a majority of Argentines support same-sex marriage, but there is less backing for same-sex couples to adopt children.

Same-sex marriage currently is legal in Netherlands, Belgium, Spain, Canada, South Africa, Norway, Sweden, Portugal, Iceland and Argentina. In the US, same-sex couples can marry in five states and in the capital, Washington.

Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Study suggests kids of lesbians have fewer behavioral problems

CNN Reports:

A nearly 25-year study concluded that children raised in lesbian households were psychologically well-adjusted and had fewer behavioral problems than their peers.



"This study shows that the 17-year-old adolescents who have been reared by lesbian families are psychologically happy and high functioning," said Dr. Nanette Gartrell, a Williams distinguished scholar at the UCLA School of Law. Restrictions of child custody and reproductive technologies based on sexual orientation are not justified, she said.

Children from lesbian families rated higher in social, academic and total competence. They also showed lower rates in social, rule-breaking, aggressive problem behavior.

The involvement of mothers may be a contributing factor, in addition to the fact that the pregnancies were planned, Gartrell said.

The children "didn't arrive by accident," she said. "The mothers were older... they were waiting for an opportunity to have children and age brings maturity and better parenting."

This also could have occurred because "growing up in households with less power assertion and more parental involvement has been shown to be associated with healthier psychological adjustment," Gartrell wrote in the study.

Read the full story.

Monday, February 8, 2010

Casting Call for "The Coming Out Monologues"

Do you have a tragic, interesting, ordinary, or funny Coming Out Story? Queers on Campus (a student club at the University of Calgary) wants to hear it! All sexualities and gender identities are encouraged to submit.



This year as a part of Queers on Campus Pride Week at the U of C, the club is collecting stories to help break the silence. Stories submitted will be performed in an inspiring play called "The Coming Out Monologues".



You are not required to perform your monologue and may choose to remain anonymous. This is also a great opportunity for you budding thespians to show off your talents, as the Club is also looking for actors to perform in the play.



If you are interested in submitting a coming out story, and/or performing a monologue, please contact Nina or Lacey at comingout.monologues@gmail.com for more information or for an application form.



Deadline for submissions and requests is February 21, 2010

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

My Thoughts on Adam Lambert and Bullshit Double Standards

So, remember when Britney Spears and Madonna kissed at the 2003 MTV awards, and everyone was so freekin' excited about it? Well apparently that doesn't go over so well when it's two men kissing. Adam Lambert (American Idol runner up and openly gay singer) recently pulled a "Madonna and Britney," and received some pretty negative feedback.

Lambert was singing his new song "For Your Entertainment" at the American Music Awards when he kissed a male keyboardist, fondled a dancer and had another dancer briefly stuff his face in Lambert's crotch.

Lambert's actions prompted many complaints to ABC, who then canceled his TV appearance on Good Morning America.

Why are Britney and Madonna allowed - even encouraged - to get away with a very public make-out session, while it's completely unacceptable for two men to do the same thing? Why are homosexual acts between two beautiful women applauded, while homosexual acts between two men are shunned? Double standards surrounding homosexuality are really starting to get on my nerves. You know we live in a fucked up society when we're more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than two men holding hands.

So what did Lambert have to say about all this? "Obviously, I respect [ABC's] decision — they gotta do what they gotta do... It's too bad, I think there were a lot of fans who were excited to come see me. [ABC] probably had a lot of pressure coming at them from certain people who weren't happy about it."

He goes on to comment that "there are a lot of double standards as far as that goes... We've seen female pop and rock performers do that for the last 10 years. They've been very provocative, owning their power and sexuality. You just don't see men doing it very often. And I'm hoping to break down that double standard with this number."

All I have to say about this is... You Go, Adam! Own your sexuality and BRING IT! If America ain't ready to handle a gay man spreading some love... fuck 'em.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Nov. 20 - Transgender Day of Remembrance

November 20th is Transgender Day of Remembrance - an occasion in the GLBTQ community to memorialize those who were killed due to anti-transgender hatred or prejudice (transphobia).

Tonight we are interviewing three members from the University of Calgary club "Queers on Campus." We will discuss the issues that transgender individuals face, and also talk about the event that Queers on Campus has planned for Friday. Tune in from 8:30 to 9:00 pm on CJSW 90.9 fm, or you can listen online.

What? Transgender day of Remembrance - discussions, vigil and march
When? Nov 20, 2009 5:00 pm
Where? "Bianca" room in MacEwan Student Centre, University of Calgary
Who? The event is hosted by Queers on Campus - everyone is welcome to attend

There will also be a ceremony and film at the old YWCA centre downtown. Details about that event can be found on Gay Calgary's website.

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Show your PRIDE this weekend!

It's time for Calgary's annual pride parade! The event provides an opportunity for people of all genders, sexual orientations and walks of life to unite and march together.

Pride events on Sunday September 6th:

The parade begins at noon and leaves from 8th street and 8th avenue SW. Participants will march east along 8th avenue and end up at Olympic Plaza, where the street festival will begin.

The festival runs from 1:00 pm to 6:00 pm and features street vendor tents, a beer garden, a stage with DJs and entertainment, and a Kid Zone.

At the end of the night there will be a dance held at Belgo (501 8th Avenue SW), and that kicks off at 8:00 pm. Pride dances typically feature special DJs, drag performances, prize draws and more!

All the details can be found at Pride Calgary.

Saturday, May 30, 2009

Go, Maya!

World renown poet, author and activist Maya Angelou has joined the fight for marriage equality. Along with a number of other high profile citizens , she is lobbying New York Senators to vote for equality when it comes to gay marriages.

Having placed three phone calls to senators last week, it's clear that the issue is one of importance to Maya and not just some silly and useless publicity stunt. She has said,

"To love someone takes a lot of courage... So how much more is one challenged when the love is of the same sex and the laws say, ‘I forbid you from loving this person’?”

This is such a great and simple way to put it. The concept of marriage as an institution is still a complex one for me, anyway. I've never understood how we as a civilization came to regulate and legislate love in the first place. However, since we are living in the age of governed oppression where we often make up ridiculous rules for one another, I'm glad to see that Maya has chosen to fight the battle of fairness. She's reminding us to keep it real and think about the big picture.

Go, Maya!

Friday, May 1, 2009

"Official Poet" of Britian is a Gay Woman!

Britian named it's first female - and openly gay - poet laureate today. Carol Ann Duffy is now Britain's offical poet, a post that has been occupied since the 17th century and has been held by the likes of William Wordsworth and Alfred Lord Tennyson.

Sincere congrats to Ms Duffy. After 341 years of having male poet laureates, I say it's about bloody time they had a woman on the job!

Friday, March 20, 2009

Ellen and Portia Sitting in a Tree

Oh, how sweet is love! Here is a delightful video of Ellen and her wife Portia, who have now been married for over seven months.



And some insight on same-sex marriage from Bill Maher:
"Let's face it. When people talk about homosexuality being unnatural, and abomination, they're not talking about the women. No, no, they're talking about the men. Nobody seems to find anything so abominable about Britney Spears tonguing Madonna. Or Gina Gershon in bed with Jennifer Tilly. Or anything else on the third shelf of my 'library.' No, in America, when a man puts something in another man, it had better be a bullet."

Friday, March 13, 2009

I'm Sorry, Did Someone Just Say 'Corrective'?

The disheartening news of an increased trend in the rape of South African queer and lesbian women did three things to me: it caught my attention, made me want to throw up, and forced me to re-evaluate my stance on a few things.

Reuters reports that a number of South African gangs are targeting lesbians in what is being called "corrective" rape attempting to make them straight. The ideology behind this tactic is that lesbian women will know what it feels like to be a 'real' woman once they've been raped by a man. Such notions leave me pondering the possibility that at least a small portion of lesbian women may have encountered sexual abuse by a man early enough in life to cause excruciating trauma so that, in adulthood, heterosexuality becomes simply undesirable.
In such a case, why would anyone want to know what it feels like to be a real woman if it means being subject to traditional, patriarchal and simply inhumane bullshit?

On top of all of this, despite the fact that South Africa is one of the vast continents' most progressive countries, the South African justice system fails to acknowledge crime on the basis of sexual orientation. This means, even if a victim survives an attack and reports it, which is rare in itself, convictions are even more rare and professional support is often nowhere to be found.

Inevitably, reactions to this news have varied from outrage to impartiality. Some are quick to point fingers from across ponds without stopping to recognize that much of the same activity happens right here in our very own backyards.

What's most bothersome to me about this type of rape is the term, "corrective". Whether or not it was coined by those hoping to bring light to the issue or by the criminals themselves doesn't matter; there's nothing to correct. Unless we're going to strip one another of our identities and until we're all machines, there won't be anything to fix - that needs to be made clear.
It's still rape, it's still crime and it's still heinous. "Corrective" is false, disgusting and genocidal, to say the least.



Watch: South Africa's Sinister Claim to Fame

Monday, February 23, 2009

Virginia University Crowns Drag Queen

George Mason University just crowned Ryan Allen, a drag queen, as their homecoming queen. He received more votes than two women who also vied for the crown.

You can watch a great little video of him accepting the award here.
And you can read more about it via the Washington Post.

Way to go Ryan, and kudos to George Mason University for being so awesome and open minded.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

A Must-Watch Video for All Prop. 8 Supporters

This video is amazing - the lyrics are very touching.
"Created Equal" by MC Flow - visit her MySpace page here.